Nobody quits in the exit interview. By the time someone is sitting across from you explaining that they’re leaving for “a great opportunity,” the decision is months old and the honest reasons have already been filed away as too awkward to say out loud.
So you get a polite answer, you write it down, and you learn nothing. And then it happens again.
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Episode 3: The Real Reason Your Best People Keep Leaving
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What This Episode Is About
Your best people almost never leave for the reason listed on the form. They leave because they stopped growing. Or because they watched something unfair happen and nobody named it. Or because they’ve been carrying more than their share for so long that it stopped feeling temporary.
In this episode I get into what actually drives strong performers out, why compensation is usually the explanation rather than the cause, and the signals that show up long before anyone resigns — the disengagement you can see in a meeting if you know what you’re looking for.
Retention is a symptom, almost always. The diagnosis sits upstream of it: in how the work is distributed, how decisions get made, and whether anyone is paying attention to the people who never complain.
In this episode, we get into:
✔️ Why exit interviews rarely give you the real reason
✔️ What high performers are actually leaving for — and it’s usually not money
✔️ The quiet warning signs that show up months before a resignation
✔️ Why your most reliable people are your highest flight risk
✔️ The conversation to have this week with someone you can’t afford to lose
If you’ve lost two or three people you couldn’t afford to lose, start here.
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